Thursday, July 24, 2014

That sibling bond

When I was pregnant, I read a lot of things about there being a special bond between (or in our case, among) multiple siblings. As the kids have gotten older, I've started to see this in little interactions all over the place.

For instance:

As Daniel has  slowly gotten braver about going up and down the stairs himself, his siblings have become his own personal cheering squad, complete with proud bragging of "look what Daniel did!", "Daniel went up/down the stairs all by himself!"  And Max's joyous, "hip, hip hooray!"

When they were still in cribs, Caroline was the only one who could climb out. If one of the boys was crying for some treason and I couldn't hear him from the front of the house, she would climb up and creep out to me and shyly say, "Max/Daniel needs you..." even though she knew she risked getting in trouble for coming out of her room. 

Since I've taken the sides off their cribs and they can all get out, they've all also decided to be "scared" at bedtime. I always reassure them there's nothing to be afraid if because I'm just outside the door to protect them. The other night it was Caroline who was scared and Max said, very sweetly, "Don't be scared, Caroline, Daniel and I protect you!"

And then there are the times they just proclaim, "group hug!" Or the other day in the dressing room after swimming class when Daniel and Caroline grabbed each other into a hug and said, "you're my best friend". I asked, "what about Max?" and they pulled him in and said, "you're all my best friend! We're all best friends!"

Let's just hope it stays that way!

Saturday, July 19, 2014

Tahoe, 2014

As you may recall, last year's trip to Tahoe was a bust.  We had the kids in pak n' plays in the living room to approximate cribs, but it didn't work well, and the refrigerator broke, and we were generally miserable.

This year, we were heading up with tempered optimism.  Uncle and Wendy came up for July 4th weekend to open the place up, remove the dead animals from the back yard, and check to make sure everything was working.  The phone/tv/internet was NOT up and running as it should've been, so he made us an appointment for July 14th between 5 and 7, giving us a timetable for our trip up the hill.

We caravanned up with me and the kids in the van and Uncle in his Smart Car following us.  We stopped only once before we left town and a handful of times as we proceeded through the eastern bay area.  The plan was to make it all the way to Placerville for a stop at der Weinerschnitzel.  But Daniel's bladder protested the plan around El Dorado Hills and an adjustment needed to be made.  I saw a sign for a shopping area that advertised a Target and thought, "well, that'd be a good place to go for a clean bathroom where we won't have to buy food."  Once in the parking lot, though, I realized that of the five of us, nobody had packed a toothbrush.  So we did some quick shopping for toothbrushes and paste, Daniel reminded me that I'd promised to look for some SuperMan underpants for him so we bought some of those, grabbed an extra bathing suit for Daniel as well, since Max has two, and then some yellow Oreos for Caroline and we were ready to roll.


We made it to Placerville and got corn dogs and ice cream (and discovered that kids do not enjoy "dipped" cones).  And then Uncle broke off from the caravan and ran up the mountain the rest of the way to make sure he met the cable guy while we meandered our way up making occasional stops for dropped pacifiers and toothbrushes.  

When we got to the cabin, Uncle offered to take Caroline to the meadow while the cable guy worked, but she decided she didn't want to go if her brothers got to go too, so she stayed behind with me, pouting and unhappy.


When she decided to be nice to me for a while, I walked her over to the meadow and swapped her for the boys, who were ready to come home.

Running to find her brothers

Seeing Max around the tree

Daniel in the distance

Uncle!

Storm clouds, threatening

Finding "fishing rods"

Fishing on the dock

Daniel

Max

Donning raincoats "just in case"

How hilarious is Daniel?

Caroline wanted to fish too.

And got her feet wet in the creek.

Settling in at the cabin, the kids took a moment to check out the piano.






And then we ordered a pizza, got slurpees  and watched tv until it was time to set up sleeping bags on the floor and settle in to "camp" for the night.  It took a while for them to settle down, but eventually we all slept and the next morning woke up at a relatively decent hour.  Unfortunately, Uncle woke up sick, so the beach was out for the day.  It was hot and sticky out and I tried to get the kids out to the Visitors Center, but when we arrived everyone was miserable and begging to go home and so we picked up  more slurpees, and headed home to set up the inflatable pool on the back porch.  After a very slow and unpleasant start to the day, Caroline proclaimed it "the best pool day ever", which is good because we'd discovered she falls prey to heat rash.




Heat rash. :(
 The kids found a DVD of Stuart Little and they were totally engrossed by it.

Max and Daniel watched tv from ON TOP OF MOMMY

It was HOT, did I mention?  

Oh, and during this time we got the new refrigerator replaced because it was dead again!  This time we got a really nice whirlpool one that DOMINATES the landscape of the kitchen.

Max showing off his "mustache straw"
That evening, we went to Denny's for dinner because Caroline wanted spaghetti and Daniel wanted a milkshake.  Kids meals are only $3.27 and include a mix and match entree and side.  Daniel ordered a cheeseburger and fries, asked us to take the cheese off his burger, and still only ate his fries.  Max ordered chicken nuggets and broccoli and only ate the broccoli.  Caroline was very proud to order spaghetti for herself, including asking for an additional meatball, and then refused to eat any of it because she didn't have any chopsticks and finished my quesadilla instead.  Grrr.  The night also included Max running through the sprinklers so he could wear his raincoat, except he chose to run directly into the sprinkler at the knee level and had to change his pants.  Caroline dumped yogurt on her skirt and had to change into pants.  And Daniel wanted to go on a walk with Uncle, which he got to do and brought Max along, only to pick up rocks and get in trouble with some other people.

Then we went shopping to get some food to put in the new fridge, went home, had popsicles, and went to sleep.

The next day we hit the beach and Daniel continued to enjoy the water more than his siblings. Apprehensive at first, he got to a point where he was comfortable being armpit-deep in the water alone. Caroline waded out a bit and enjoyed being carried in by Uncle, and Max mostly hung out on the shore making sand sculptures.  We went back and washed the beach off the kids and then we went back out for mini golf.

Mini Golf!  The same course Uncle and I played on as kids - completely unchanged in the past thirty years.  I was getting a little frustrated trying to show the kids how to putt and keeping score and preventing them from beaning each other and keeping track of where the balls went and who had which color ball.  And then by the seventh hole, I decided they didn't need to use the putters and I didn't need to keep score and as long as nobody was seriously injured, we were fine.  And then it was a lot of fun!







Of course, their favorite part was the coin-operated rides we didn't bring money for.  Oh well.


(Interesting side note - there's a decal in the window at the golf course identifying it as a "safe surrender" site for unwanted babies.)

The last day, the kids had no interest in doing anything.  We went shopping to find a birthday gift for their friend Brianna and avoid the sprinkles of the thunder storms that had finally reached the valley.  Before it rained, we stopped at a craft fair and found nothing to buy, but got a hotdog, an ear of corn, a pretzel, and some lemonade.

Max loves his corn!

Caroline had a big tantrum in the Heavenly Valley shopping center, and then fell asleep in the car on our way to the Y.  We foraged in the cabin for food for dinner and then packed up the next day and headed home.

The kids "cleaned up" by putting EVERYTHING behind the couch.

Caroline zonked out on the floor.

Max and Daniel snuggled toe-to-toe on the couch.

Daniel blew his nose for the camera.

Caroline mugged for the camera.
 Before we left, we made sure to measure the kids on the doorframe where Uncle and I had been measured growing up.

Caroline has grown a lot since last year, but is easily an inch and a half shorter than I was at the same age.

Daniel and Max are nearly the same height, but considerably taller than Uncle was at OVER 4...



Sunday, July 13, 2014

The Salvateenies' Grand Slam Bonanza

Auntie Lee Ann came to town for the weekend and we were all excited to hang out with her on Sunday.  But what should we do?  The Giants were in town - and on a Sunday, meaning we could do the whole post-game running of the bases.  That was our first choice, but it was also Angel Pagan Bobblehead day, which meant that, thanks to the joys of "dynamic pricing", tickets were super expensive.  I'd almost given up on that plan, but checked StubHub one last time and found six bleacher seats together for just about face value.  Not bad.

And let me tell you, the bleachers are the PERFECT place for three wiggly kids (no sarcasm intended).

Everyone got up early and dressed up in their Giants gear to head out to the game.




Then we were off to the game.  We met Daddy and Auntie there and headed in to get our "presents" (the bobble heads) and then to the press box to leave them at Daddy's chair.

This picture went up on the big screen in the sixth inning to welcome us to the game!
Then we moved on out to my normal section in front of the press box to see Margaret and to sit down and have something to eat.

Daniel had a hot dog

Not sure what Caroline was munching on...
After a bit, we wandered out to our seats, taking in the sites.  The kids were again super excited to play in the cable car that sits in center field and hung out there for quite some time.





The kids got bored waiting for the game to start and were pretty whiny, so we resorted to the magic cure of ice cream bars!  We were seated in the middle of the row, but luckily we were surrounded by really nice folks who either had kids or at least liked them, so we didn't seem to annoy anyone too much.

Max's Dove Bar mustache

Daniel kept it all ice cream

Caroline took hers seriously

The view from our seats
Caroline and Daniel went back to check out the cable car for a while and Max and I hung out in the seats taking pictures of each other while we waited for Auntie to get her food.

Max's view of me

My view of Max (I think I got the better view)

Goofball!
When everyone came back, we stopped a vendor to get some cotton candy.  I know it's nothing but sugar and coloring, but because the kids learned about it from the British cartoon Sarah & Duck, they call it "candy floss" and it is next to impossible to deny three adorable children when they ask for "candy floss".





Then it was time for Daniel to get his hands on the camera and take some pictures.

Daddy smiling for Daniel

His view of his sister

His goofball brother






The game was super exciting.  Though the Giants had been playing pretty badly for quite a few weeks, their bats came alive during this game and a Buster Posey grand slam landed just about 10 rows in front of us (we saw a woman leave with a bloodied nose from the fight for the ball), only to be followed a bit later on by a Madison Bumgarner grand slam - his second of the season and the first time the starting pitcher and catcher had ever both hit grand slams in the same game.
Doesn't Caroline look impressed?
It was also pretty warm out there, prompting both boys to peel off their jerseys and then Daniel to strip down another layer!


Daniel says hi to our friend Alexa who came out to visit



Daddy and Auntie took the kids up to see the big baseball glove and go down the slides in the Coke bottle for a bit.



And then we packed up in the 8th inning and headed outside to get in line for the running of the bases - the kids' first time!

























 


























And then it was back up to the press box to collect our things and kiss Auntie bye bye!  Thanks for the great day!